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Eulogy
for Phil Garfoot
Read
by Mark Courtney
Written by Phil Garfoot's family and friends
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Phil
Garfoot took his last long hike on this earth on Tuesday, March
30th.
People who
knew Phil never forgot him. People near and far kept in touch
with him, and told him - told anyone who would listen - how much
he meant to them: friends from grade school on up through high
school in Fresno or the army or the merchant marines, from Yosemite
or the Tetons; His brothers and their families, cousins from California,
Wisconsin, even Norway; Stehekin friends, who came and went for
over forty years; trail workers who spent a decade or a day brushing
with him; even visitors who stopped in the orchard just once.
Everyone who knew Phil held him in high esteem, and for good reason.
Phil was strong. He loved all sports, baseball especially, as
we all know, and he was once an outstanding second baseman at
Fresno High. He liked to talk about how he might have gone on
with his career if he hadn't injured his rotator cuff one summer
playing marathon tennis matches with his friend Freddy Garcia
before baseball practice every hot Fresno afternoon. Phil also
loved to ski, a sport he learned the hard way the season he and
Wendy spent at Winter Park, Colorado where he groomed trails by
dragging a "Bradley Packer" - a huge wooden contraption
that connected to the groomer's belt. Decades later Phil and Wendy
returned to Winter Park, and reconnected with friends who remembered
them from that winter. And for over thirty years in Stehekin,
Phil's annual trips to shovel snow off the North Fork Bridge were
almost as legendary as his museum-like collection of cross country
skis.
And Phil loved hard work, especially in the hot sun. The hotter
the better. The hotter the weather got, the harder Phil swung
his machete or pick mattock, the more horses he shod, the more
cans he crushed with his "Norwegian can crusher," the
more garden soil he turned over. And the more big things he moved.
The bigger the better. Whether a rock in the trail or a driftwood
log on the lakeshore or pallets of slate for his roof, nothing
was too big to move by hand. He'd set up some rollers or cut a
long pole as a lever then encourage whoever was with him to lie
down on their backs and "push with their legs. Phil often
said he thought he was meant to be a "coolie" one of
the Chinese laborers working on the railroad in the 1800's. He
was happy working hard, without a machine, then walking five or
twelve miles back home on top of it. Generations of trail workers
have idolized Phil, thinking: if only I could keep up with him.
Few could. And they didn't just mean on the trail. They meant
in life. Phil managed to avoid a desk job for his entire career
with the National Park Service sticking with physical labor until
he retired in 2007 at age 69. He got out before he ever had to
open an email account.
Phil liked to work with his hands. He studied art in college in
Montana, and he admired artists and illustrators and cartoonists,
alike, especially Gary Larson. Phil's artistic talent and keen
eye for beauty inspired every corner of his life. He painted and
drew and built trail bridges with purposeful curves. And, of course,
he made signs. Those signs of his, on slabs of wood, chainsaw-ripped,
elegantly and rustically routed, in the familiar block print or
his flowing cursive were never stenciled, never sloppy, always
unique. They are a trademark of Stehekin and a large part of what
makes the place seem intimate and authentic, the kind of place
where someone will take the time to take a half-burned chunk of
cedar and turn an outhouse sign into a work of art. Phil worked
for hours to make signs that pointed out landmarks and trailheads,
that marked homes and businesses, and his Park Service arrowheads
were the finest of going away gifts.
Phil was always generous. He gave away more signs than he was
ever paid for. He gave people help when they needed it. He climbed
and limbed trees; he moved rocks and stumps and clawfoot bathtubs.
Phil and Wendy hosted countless community potlucks and annual
Leo Parties at the orchard, providing coffee and beer, horseshoes
and music and volleyball and at least once, rescue service, when
Quin fell in the outhouse. Most of all, Phil gave people his time
- from reading Brun and Liv nightly bedtime stories to greeting
visitors along the trail or at the Buckner Orchard. And he took
real interest in their stories. He liked to know where people
were from, both the places they came from and their heritage.
He liked to know which sports teams they favored, and tried not
to hold it against them when it wasn't the Mariners or Duke. Almost
always he left them laughing.
Phil was funny. He often envisioned life in cartoons. His sense
of humor mirrored Gary Larson's. He liked to think of the world
from an animal's point of view, or caveman's or a dinosaur's …
maybe because he thought of himself as a caveman or dinosaur.
Everyone has a funny Phil story. One year in Stehekin, where everyone
waves each time a car passes, Phil made his own personal sign
to hold up each time a car passed. The sign said: "hi."
And late one fall when Laurie got into trouble falling a cottonwood,
she saw from across the orchard Phil racing in a Viking mask,
peevee in hand, to her rescue. Phil was quick-witted, but never
cutting. He could leave a whole crowd in tears telling a story,
but couldn't remember a joke to save his life. His humor was full
of understatement and humility and silliness. And love.
Phil was
a collector. He especially loved to browse in a used book store,
spending hours in them and never leaving empty handed. He was
a voracious reader, leaning particularly toward military history,
biographies, art history and sports. It was rare indeed that Phil
wasn't closing a book before turning out the last light in the
house. And there were the sweaters, especially Norwegian sweaters.
There were hats and socks, knives and carving tools… and
those skis. And we can't forget driftwood! Phil would eye a treasure
in the lake and with the tenacity that he had in abundance would
find a way to rope it in and haul it to the property, often with
a little help from his friends.
Phil loved many things. He loved wildlife: the deer and the geese
in the orchard, and one particular rattlesnake on the Boulder
Creek trail. He loved horses. He packed them for the trail crew
and kept them in the orchard pasture when Liv and Brun were growing
up. He loved his dogs: Webster, Haskins, Bill & Bob, Yoda
and Vanna. And he loved his friends. In recent months, he wrote
hundreds of letters to friends old and new, sharing sports stories,
cherished memories, philosophies, and day to day news, reminding
them that he loved them. He loved his children Brun and Liv. Some
of Brun's fondest memories are rattlesnake encounters while hiking
with his dad, taking horses to the barge while still dark, and
their yearly tradition of Mariner baseball games in Seattle. Some
of Liv's fondest memories are helping her Dad shoe horses by attempting
to wear an old shoeing apron and practicing on their dog Bob and
more recently, when she visited Stehekin this past Fall. They
took a drive together to the end of the road, talking the entire
way about life in general and Stehekin, how it used to be and
how it is now, the direction life takes you and the importance
of the steps along the way. Phil loved his parents, his brothers
and their families, Liv's husband Johnny, Brun's wife Mindy, and
his grandchildren: Leanna, Josie, Ian, Makala. And he loved his
wife Wendy most of all. Since his retirement, Phil and Wendy were
able to spend some special time. They took a long-anticipated
trip to Norway in 2008 to trace his family heritage, and late
in February they spent two weeks at the Oregon Coast where he
was able to walk with her by the ocean every day.
Phil said often that he wished he could find a little shack by
ocean, nothing fancy, but a place where he could hear the waves
and walk in the sand. A few days before he died, he asked Wendy
if she thought this might be what heaven would be like. She said,
for him, it definitely would be.
Maybe the biggest reason that people admired Phil so much was
just that Phil was so reliably Phil. He knew what he believed
and he lived it. He liked to joke that his catchphrase should
be "I'm against it" since he so often fought change.
He fought to keep the orchard as it is; he fought to keep his
family in Stehekin; he fought for one lone dogwood tree outside
the Golden West. And he won. But Phil just as often fought for
things. He fought for the ideas he believed in, the people he
loved, and the life he chose to live, which was a lot like the
things he built: simple and elegant, functional and beautiful.
Phil's good friend Bob Cunningham once joked that years from now
archaeologists will come back to Stehekin to dig and find massive
picnic tables and big pile of slate. Phil's spirit is like that
too: huge, meant to stay put, and to last forever.
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