| To the Stehekin friends of my Dad,
Quite a task for a son to try to share or capture the essence of
his Dad and ultimately share them with the community he loved so
much. As many of you have heard or know by now my Dad, "Bob"
Lehman died this month due to his battle with metastatic melanoma
cancer. What you may not know is what a great Dad and Grandpa he
was and how much he loved to be a part of all the great things Stehekin
has to offer.
My Dad dedicated his life to kids. He was a Superintendent of Schools,
coach of numerous Little League teams, and loved every last moment
being around his grandkids. As a Dad I found his love to be unconditional.
He celebrated in my wins and didn't judge me in my losses. He listened
and offered advice if I asked. My Dad was involved. He rarely said
no when it had to do with playing catch or as I got older going
back out to the river to fish for a third time during the day. He
was not the kind of Dad that ever forced me to do things. He allowed
me to figure things out and as a result I came to him when I needed
his support. Most of all my Dad was fun. He was fun to be around.
Whether it was watching the Mariner's blow a big lead or stopping
at the bakery to get vegetarian pizza. My Dad coached to have a
positive attitude and as much as he practiced it he got pretty good
at it. I thought he was funny. My Mom might argue that, but he made
me laugh. Especially, when it came to his descriptions of the size
of fish he caught. Or the number of fish for that matter. Besides
my brother I have never met someone who took in as much joy catching
the same size fish over and over and over in the upper Stehekin.
Over
the years my Dad got to know many of you. But his most intimate
relationship was most likely forged through hours of fishing, often
by himself on the river. Whenever he would pick me up in the summer
for my week visit we would stop by the bakery for veggie pizza before
heading up the road. Invariably, he would start in on all the places
he caught a fish and where he thought there might be a good hole
as the truck ventured towards the cabin. It was amazing how many
"really nice" fish he claimed to have caught. Many of
you may not know that he has a name for almost every hole on the
river. Some are named after you, others based on the river formations,
and maybe even some from a guest or two who caught a fish in a particular
area. Dad loved the river. His favorite view was looking back at
MacGregor on a warm summer day with the breeze whistling down the
valley. I asked him if he enjoyed fishing as much by himself and
he said something to the effect that it always was a little more
fun to share a catch with someone else, but it was still fun. It
was my way of trying to have him make me feel better about ultimately
knowing I would soon be alone on the river. I'm sure many of you
have seen his truck pulled over at the side of the road on an occasion
or two or three in pursuit of a big rainbow. I could only hope that
you name a fishing hole or a part of the river after my Dad. If
he knew that "Bob's Hole" lived in the life of a grandchild
I believe nothing could make him happier.
Thanks for allowing me to honor my incredible Dad.
Trevor Lehman
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